Support blog for all victims/survivors of sexual assault, molestation, incest, domestic violence and abusive relationships.
Any asks or submissions sent to us regarding false accusations will not be posted or responded to. This is a safe haven for people who have been through trauma and we want to avoid causing undue stress - doubt is not welcome here.
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Has your husband done something specific to make you feel he’ll react that way, or is it your past experience causing you to worry?
Opening up to people you love and trust can be really helpful for some victims/survivors on their road to recovery. I always recommend that our followers try to build a support system, and it’s best to start with family and friends. It’s hard, but it can be such a relief.
If he has given you reason to suspect he’ll react poorly, on the other hand, I wouldn’t suggest telling him. If that’s the case, I’d also suggest looking at your relationship closely. You deserve someone who supports you and wants to help you get better.
Hi. This is not uncommon. I want you to know that. Because I don’t have personal experience with this, though, I’m going to refer you to this wonderful post by selfcareafterrape.
You have no reason to feel ashamed. You have done nothing wrong here.
When we live in a world where you can access free content of naked consenting women in less than 5 seconds, why are people still invading the privacy of non-consenting women for nudes?
Hint: It has something to do with people feeling entitled to making any woman their personal porn, even if it violates or humiliates her in the process.
’*ESPECIALLY if it violates or humiliates her in the process.’, imo.
"Don’t wear a hoodie if you don’t want to be mistaken for a criminal and shot."
"Don’t get drunk at a party if you don’t want to be sexually assaulted."
"Don’t argue with a cop if you don’t want to get killed."
"Don’t walk home by yourself if you don’t want to get raped."
Victim blaming 101: Everyone should live in fear from ever doing anything.